Wednesday, December 15, 2010

Last Weekend..



My dad told me that we will go to temple on weekend so start on friday..hmmm I took permission to leave early n caught the train at 5.30 PM.Reached home at 9.30 PM.Mom keep on asking one or the other thing of my daily routine..I wondered,she didnt get bore of listening same all the time? :D
Dad asked me to go sleep ..tomorrow u have to get up early ..pooja starts at 6.30 AM.Head bath is must etc.
waking up early always  sickkk  to me :p I am preparing to go to my bed room ..he added 'keep an alarm'.
I pretended like I  m dumb :P
Next day morning mom came with a warning tone  "get up IT IS ALREADY 6.30" ..I woke up  with a horrified expression after listening that..My dad scoldings started on the other side "u r such a lazy girl,no common sense etc..... " :D
My dad getting phone calls from priest from 7AM.My dad saying we will be there on 15 minuites like that..
I know again my dad searching words to praise me :P
Rain also started ..
At last we started at 7.20 AM ..while going dad continued the remaining saga :D
he added I know u r having no time sense so I told pooja time half an hr before still we r going late becoz of u ..u should know some things we should do on time..some things like shopping does nt require time sense etc..
I thought hmm dad U always tell like this :D I remebered how many times he told the wrong train timings (always tell half an hr or one hr before :P )
ofcourse I dont mind with all these :D who cares!! :P (actually I am comfortable of being like this :P )
we drenched a lil bit n we entered into temple ..pooja started.. priest asked me two times to say 'ma ma' except tht he didnt bothered me much ..I am watching carefully siva idol..Always I love to watch him..

Priest asked us to sit outside ..he will be starting some thousand times of siva names etc ..I didnt understand much abt it ..what I got is we didnt required to sit there..
I  n my dad came out n simply taking rounds n observing temple..First time I watching this temple n noticed it is very old ..It was wonderful!! temple has been built on side of a lake..
My dad saying this temple is reconstructed now..when I came to this temple at my childhood,very big trees are surrounded here like tht..
we had a random talk afterwards ..Interesting ones are :

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In the middle of talks,I asked my dad "can we sit somewhere" ? he asked "y dont u stand atleast for an hr"
I said "Come on dad, it was already 45 min over .. I cant" :D n showed one bench ..he said tht was drenched ..it was under a tree so I said may be some part is not drenched ..let see I said n went for confirmation it was completely drenched..
He is smiling after watching my face n he said "c this is the problem with u..U dont believe until unless u come across with the problem. U should listen to it when something is not good for u n need to change according to it.." I left out with words as it is absolutely true!

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I saw the fields beside the temple n talking about people who r cropping it n all..I asked 'dad y this place is like undeveloped all the time ? '
He said in a grief tone..Here people just now stopped fighting between each other,still they r not aware of what they want..what does they require to lead a better life than this..People doesnt ask about roads even..
They r now simply enjoying the life with drinking ..
I asked "y dont we gather people n ask the MLA regarding problems?
He said " y dont we waste our time even people doesnt know what they want..If they r clear about what they want we can ask..one more thing people doesnt believe others too.."
He remebered one situation n started explaining what happened in that..
one person died who having insurance claim but the Insurance company  doesn't give money (30,000) to the family because his age is more than 70.
Family asked so many others all r asked insurance company ppl and agreed to what they said..
This time family came to me n I involved n  the company ppl gave money check in 3 days...
These r all simple tasks..still people doesnt know how to solve this..

I nodded to him n asked how u solved dad?..I know that he know so many big  people but I dont think he consult them for this small task..
 he said "I know one insurance agent here when we took policy from him..Now LIC agents will get the 25% from the policy but what they r doing is they r just keeping 5% of it n returning back the remaining percent money to the people who r taking the policy..he offered me the remaining percentage ..
I said "you people r living on that percentage..Keep it with you .."
He saw me with a non believing expression becoz who say no to money ..hmm
When these people came to me ..I called him n said the problem ..he told that "Because of U,I am doing this sir" ..
Generally people ask about their own benefits but here we r asking for others ..That is the another reason for him to think better of us..n doing it by taking his own interest..
dad added : If he is not there also I can solve it by talking with the company manager as it is a small amount..
I thought I know dad u can do it ..I love you ..... :)



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We came out of temple later ..last weekend is one of the sweet moments which I spent with my family...